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How much time do you spend thinking about why you shouldn’t start creating something new instead of just doing it?

How many statements of disqualification do you listen to everyday?

Do you ever hear questions in your head like these?

The truth is I hear this list a lot.

And I even yield to its taunting voice.

I thought I’d write down what I hear mostly for my own benefit.

Maybe you’ll find it encouraging to silence your lizard brain also.

 

Questions of Disqualification?

-What if your next project, your next presentation, your new curriculum, your new software app is not any good?

-What if no one uses it?

-What if no one likes it?

-What if no one leaves a comment on your next blog post?

-What if you don’t finish the Marathon you are training for?

-What if your ebook doesn’t get read?

-What if no one buys your new product idea?

-What if your book manuscript doesn’t get published?

-What if no one listens to your new podcast?

Time Wasted

How much time do we spend churning through these questions instead of just doing the work?

I am going to wager a guess.

I bet I spend almost 75% of my time, some days,
entertaining these kinds of questions instead of just doing the work.

How many incomplete projects or ideas do you have in your cue?

I have an eBook in process titled Fire your boss, instead of quitting your job.  I’ve been editing this project for the past month.

I also have a series of four or five interviews that I have committed to do but keep delaying due to some missing practicalities.

I have four upcoming talks that I am delivering.  All of which I have been procrastinating on.

Take an Inventory

  1. Would you be willing to take an inventory of the number of projects, ideas, initiatives
    that you have started in the last six months, but not completed?
  2. Now take a similar inventory of the number of projects that you have completed?
  3. How many of the completed projects, ideas, products, inventions, books, stories, speeches, stood up against the above list of fears?

Do The Work Anyway

Once you answer the questions above with the answer I am going to do it anyway.

Then you are free to do the work you love regardless of people’s responses.

Jeff Goins published a great ebook that speaks to this kind of thinking, Your Are a Writer, so start acting like one.

Why don’t we each starting acting like we were what we wanted to be?

You are a writer.

You are a designer.

You are an author.

I am a…….

What will you do today that yesterday you dismissed because you thought
no one will like what you create?

 

You might also enjoy the podcast interview with Jeff Goins.  Listen here.  

  • http://www.SamJolman.com/ Sam Jolman

    Aaron… thanks for naming the insecurities and shame I struggle with too. Thanks for fighting it enough to keep writing. Looking forward to your e-book.

    • http://Aaronmchugh.com/ Aaron McHugh

      Sam-Glad the “lizard brain” thoughts sounded familiar to you as well. Hoping to have the eBook ready for shipment next month. Go big or Go home right?

      • http://www.SamJolman.com/ Sam Jolman

        Lizard Brain..I take it you’ve read A General Theory of Love? Good metaphor. YES! Love the ebook idea.

  • http://www.facebook.com/allisoncrow Allison Crow Flanigin

    This reminds me of what Brene Brown says in her new book, “Daring Greatly”– or at least what she said today on the Katie show: On a quote on her desk that read, “What would you do if you knew you would not fail?” she placed a post-it over it that said, “What is worth doing, even if you know you will fail?”

    • http://Aaronmchugh.com/ Aaron McHugh

      “even if you know you will fail”….Allison that is a tough one for me if I am entirely honest. How I get around the idea of utter failure is interpretation. Meaning as long as I learn something from it, I can’t fail. I don’t know if that is just tricking myself, but it beats the idea of a complete bust.

  • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

    Good word, Aaron. I think the opposite is a valid question, too: “What if I don’t like what I create?”

    Who cares if everyone loves what you do, but you can’t stand it?

    The worst thing to do is be successful in the wrong things. As a wise teacher once said, “What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, but lose his soul?”

    The job of any creative soul is to first do what inspires him. Then maybe others will follow.

    • Aaron McHugh

      Thanks Jeff what if I don’t like it? That is a good twist. The irony of the life of an artist or creative soul is to do what you love and if someone loves it great. But the audience poll is further down the list of consideration. Lets keep going.

    • http://Aaronmchugh.com/ Aaron McHugh

      Thanks Jeff -what if I don’t like it? That is a good twist. The irony of the life of an artist or creative soul is to do what you love and if someone loves it great. But the audience poll is further down the list of consideration. Lets keep going.

  • Fiona

    I completely relate to this – thank you for your honesty and wise thoughts and encouragement to just DO THE WORK ANYWAY. Great post!

    • Aaron McHugh

      Fiona-
      Thank you for weighing in with us on this quandary of staying the course. I hope this encourages you to do the same in your Art. Life. and Play.

    • http://Aaronmchugh.com/ Aaron McHugh

      Fiona-
      Thank you for weighing in with us on this quandary of staying the course. I hope this encourages you to do the same in your Art. Life. and Play.

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Posted on: 09 / 04 / 2012